Wanting to clear something up here

[abilouise]

I am not a straight woman.  Please don't make the assumption that I am even more into boys than into girls, because you will be wrong.  Anything that may have given you the impression that I am straight is purely situational, and may also be based on my choosing to let you assume things to make my life feel easier and safer.  

Comments

[ukelele.livejournal.com]

I...whuh...people think you're straight?

[abilouise.livejournal.com]

Yeah! Isn't that stupid?

[abilouise.livejournal.com]

I think that these days, it's the whole married-to-a-guy thing that gets them.

[dcltdw]

I suppose if they only met you post-marriage, that would be (to me) a reasonable superficial assumption.

[ukelele.livejournal.com]

I mean, as I thought through it, I can't remember seeing you date any women, but that doesn't seem all that relevant.